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The (real) secret to hot sex

It has little to do with the body and everything to do with the mind. A sex therapist shares what he's learned

Looking for the hot new position that will transform your sex life? The bedroom technique that will bring ultimate satisfaction? Look no further.
Not that sex therapist Marty Klein is actually selling any of those things — but his new book, “Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want From Sex and How to Get It,” offers something better: an alternative to chasing that erotic mirage. His message is antithetical to the sex advice found everywhere from self-help books to the supermarket checkout line: The secret to a fulfilling sex life is mental, not physical.
It isn’t the sexiest directive, but it might actually get you somewhere. Klein has drawn on more than 30 years of counseling experience for this smart handbook on how to develop what he calls “Sexual Intelligence,” which he describes as the thing that “gets you from hormone-driven sex to sex you choose,” “from ‘sex has to validate me’ to ‘I validate my sexuality.’” The challenge here is to let go of notions of what “successful” and “normal” sex looks and feels like. The reward is a sex life where “failure” is virtually impossible.


Sex and Food: The World's Strangest Aphrodisiacs Through Time

Hot chocolate? The potato? Piranhas? Throughout history, humankind has persisted in the belief that some foods are linked to sex.

From the Garden of Eden to the oyster cellar bordellos of old New York, food and sex are entwined. Although every food under the sun has been touted as an aphrodisiac at some point in time, humans tend to get turned on by three categories of food: extremely expensive food, food that is risky to acquire, and food that resembles genitalia.
Rare and exotic foods have favored positions in the canon of culinary aphrodisiacs. Consider the truffle, the piranha and the labor of harvesting a plate full of sparrow tongues. Foods from far-off lands have the spicy whisper of perilous adventure, and there’s nothing quite like a hint of mystery to stimulate the imagination. For example, Aztec concubines taught the conquistadors to drink hot chocolate; when the Spaniards carried the exotic substance across the sea to Europe, they brought with it the rumor that the drink was an aphrodisiac. And during the reign of Charles I, when rice was still a luxury in Europe, noble Casanovas swore by the improbable aphrodisiac of rice boiled in milk and flavored with cinnamon.
As an ingredient becomes common, and thus cheaper, it loses its magic. Case in point: the potato. Your modern Brit is unlikely to find a plate of mashed potatoes sexually stimulating, but potatoes and sweet potatoes were hailed as aphrodisiacs when they were first introduced to the European palate; in Shakespeare’s “The Merry Wives of Windsor,” Falstaff reels off a list of the era’s aphrodisiacs: kissing comfits, snow eryngoes (the candied roots of sea holly), and potatoes. Once rare ingredients such as cinnamon, cloves, marmalade, rice and pepper have likewise lost their sexy status.
The second largest umbrella group of chewable aphrodisiacs is based on the crude logic that if something looks like your nasty bits, it’ll undoubtedly put your prospective partner in the mood. Thus, scheming Lotharios and temptresses have long relied on the amorous offering of edible flowers and roots. In the British Isles, wake robin (Arum maculatumwas once valued as a thickener for puddings, a starch for Elizabethan neck ruffs, and for its phallic bloom, which earned the plant a reputation as an aphrodisiac and spawned over 20 suggestive folk names, including Adam and Eve, lords and ladies, devils and angels, stallions and mares, and dog’s dick. On a similar note, the word “orchid” is derived from the ancient Greek word for testicle. Pliny the Elderrecommended bulbous orchid tubers as an aphrodisiac, and the Romans called orchids “satyrion” because legend had it that the phallic roots grew from the spilled semen of a satyr.
The tribes of Mexico preferred not the root but the flower. The Totonoc Indians believed that the orchid Vanilla planifolia sprang from the blood of a goddess, and the Aztecs named it tlilxochitl, or black flower. Vanilla planifolia is an inherently romantic plant: its small blossoms open in the morning and are exclusively pollinated by hummingbirds and melipone bees. The dirty-minded Conquistadors noted the pod’s resemblance to female genitalia, and gave the plant the name vanilla, which derived from the Latin for sheath. Europeans soon prized vanilla as an aphrodisiac; wild stories circulated that vanilla could transform the ordinary man into an astonishing lover. Elizabeth I is said to have been especially fond of vanilla pudding.
Oysters and clams have had a lewd reputation since history’s dawn. The Roman author Juvenal (a nasty misogynist) uses oysters to complete his portrait of a slut partying away the night: “When she knows not one member from another, eats giant oysters at midnight, pours foaming unguents into her unmixed Falernian, and drinks out of perfume-bowls, while the roof spins dizzily round, the table dances, and every light shows double!” In keeping with the Roman talent for using food to call attention to those ultimate aphrodisiacs — wealth and power — emperors and aristocrats turned their noses up at local oysters and sent away to the British Isles for a superior variety. The association between oysters and strumpets would have staying power: As Rebecca Stott points out in her book “Oyster,” “Throughout the seventeenth and eighteenth century, the woman oyster seller was used in poetry as a figure of erotic play, something like the oyster, to be consumed, part of the sensuous fruit of the street for the male urban voyeur.” In 19th century America, underground oyster saloons catered to base instincts — guests could slurp back dozens of oysters while cavorting with good-time girls and prostitutes; some of the seedier joints offered private rooms. A few decades later and a few hundred miles south, scantily clad ladies would shimmy in a popular striptease act called the oyster dance. In the 1940s, Kitty West (a cousin of Elvis Presley) danced on Bourbon street as “Evangeline the Oyster Girl”; to open her act, she stepped with aplomb from a giant half shell.      

zaterdag 18 februari 2012

Why Do People Have Sex

Sexual motives greatly surpass the 'Big Three' -- love, pleasure, and making babies.


Your partner may come up with a dozen excuses to say "Not tonight, dear, I have a ____," but how many reasons can the two of you name for seeking sex?
One? Two? Twenty? How about 200? Some college students have cited as many as 237 different reasons for having sex.
From pleasure to procreation, insecurity to inquisitiveness -- today's reasons for taking a roll in the hay seem to vary as much as the terms for the deed itself. A 2010 Sexuality & Culture review of sex motivation studies states that people are offering "far more reasons for choosing to engage in sexual activity than in former times." And we're doing it more often, too. It is a stark contrast from historical assumptions, which tend to cite only three sexual motivators: To make babies, to feel good, or because you're in love.
Today, sexual behaviors seem to have taken on many different psychological, social, cultural, even religious meanings. Yet, some sexologists say, at the most basic level, there is only one true reason people seek sex.

Wired for Sex

"We are programmed to do so. Asking why people have sex is akin to asking why we eat. Our brains are designed to motivate us toward that behavior," says Richard A. Carroll, PhD, a sex therapist and associate professor in the department of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Northwestern University Feinberg School of Medicine.
The idea that humans are hard-wired for sex reflects an evolutionary perspective, says Elaine Hatfield, PhD, professor of psychology at the University of Hawaii and author of that 2010 review examining sexual motives from cross-cultural, historical, and evolutionary viewpoints.
"Evolutionary theorists point out that a desire for sexual relations is 'wired in' in order to promote species survival," she tells WebMD in an email. "Cultural theorists tend to focus on the cultural and personal reasons people have (or avoid) sex. Cultures differ markedly in what are considered to be 'appropriate' reasons for having or avoiding sex."

What's Your Motive?

Why do you seek sex? Motivations generally fall into four main categories, according to psychologists at UT-Austin, who asked more than 1,500 undergraduate college students about their sexual attitudes and experiences.
  • Physical reasons: Pleasure, stress relief, exercise, sexual curiosity, or attraction to a person.
  • Goal-based reasons: To make a baby, improve social status (for example, to become popular), or seek revenge.
  • Emotional reasons: Love, commitment, and gratitude.
  • Insecurity reasons: To boost self-esteem, keep a partner from seeking sex elsewhere, or because of a feeling of duty or pressure (for example, a partner insists on having sex).

The Difference Between the Sexes

Generally speaking, men seek sex because they like how it feels. Women, although they very well may also derive pleasure from the act, are generally more interested in the relationship enhancement aspects of sex. Researchers describe these differences as body-centered versus person-centered sex.
  • Body-centered sex is when you have sex because you like the way it makes your body feel. You are not really caring about the emotions of your partner.
  • Person-centered sex is when you have sex to connect with the other person. You care about the emotions involved and the relationship.

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donderdag 26 januari 2012

How to Write an amazing sex toy revieuw

I love reading sex toy reviews. They’re a great way to discover new ways to try a toy out, and lots of them are super fun. But unfortunately, some reviewers don’t know how to make the most out their review. So here are some tips to help  them out!
One of the most valuable skills for an
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This article isn’t going to focus on how to set up a blog because we have
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Do a little research first You might think that this is obvious, but some reviewers don’t realize until after they get the sample that it won’t work for them. Of course, mistakes happen, but do a some research first. Read about the toy and think about whether it’s something you’d want to try, as well as whether it’s something that you can try.
For example, one reviewer requested an anal toy that was simply too big for comfortable use. All of our toy measurements are on the product page but they just didn’t think to check. Another reviewer got a vibrating cock ring, only to find out that her boyfriend wasn’t interested in trying it. If you’ll need to recruit a partner, check with them before you request it. We’re happy to send you goodies, but we want to know that you’ll actually use it.
Use it in lots of ways. One of the most amazing things about sex toys is the incredible creativity people bring to their experiences. As a toy reviewer, you’ll be able to connect with more readers if you do the same thing.
Using a
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That’s not to suggest that you have to do things that you don’t enjoy. But the more you experiment, the more info you’ll have to share with your readers. You can also read about the toy on our website to see if there’s anything inspiring there!
Keep notes. Unless you plan to write your review right after using the toy, you might want to keep a pad and pen nearby to write down anything you notice. You might be surprised at some of the things you come up with!
Structure your review. Readers want to know what you think about the product. Disorganized posts make it hard for them to find the information they need. And while your personal experiences can be really helpful, when your post is more of an erotic story than a toy review, you might find that you’re getting fewer conversions because folks are distracted by the story.
Here’s one good framework for your post.
Preamble. Give us a bit of a teaser to get us to read the whole post. Here’s an example:
Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes these days. I’m usually a fan of the more powerful electric options, but I was surprised at how powerful and fun this mini vibe was.”
Product Description/Features. Tell us about the toy. What’s it made out of, what are the dimensions, describe it, what other colors or sizes does it come in, what batteries does it need (if any), how does it recharge (if it’s rechargeable)? You can get a lot of this information from our web site.
Remember- features that might not work for you could be someone else’s favorite, so describe everything.
Product Performance. How did you use the toy and how did it work? This is the core of your post and will usually take up the most space. What did you like? What didn’t work? What about cleaning it?
 You can give your readers both the pros and cons- we want your review to be 100% honest. But this is where you’ll be glad you took notes because you’ll be able to include the details that you might have forgotten.
If a toy didn’t work for you, say that. You can also add some suggestions for who it might be a good fit for. For example, “I’m not a big fan of buzzy
vibrators, but if you want something small that offers a gentle sensation, this is worth trying.”
Avoid making sweeping statements or judging the toy. Remember that everything will work for someone and nothing works for everyone. If you want to keep your readers coming back, don’t alienate them.
Summary Remarks. Give us one or two sentences that wrap everything up. Who would this toy be good for? How might it be used? End on a positive note whenever possible.
Keep your writing general. Don’t assume anything about the gender, sexual orientation, experience level, or relationship status of your readers. You want as wide a range as possible and saying things like “Ladies, you’ll curl your man’s toes with this toy” will get in the way of that. Similarly, don’t say things like “every woman likes the rabbit!” It’s not true and will make a lot of people stop visiting your site.
Write well. This is a toy review, not Shakespeare, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be careful with your spelling, punctuation, and grammar. If it’s easier, write it in Word and spell-check it before copying it into your blogging software. It can be helpful to get someone else to review it for you, too.
Keep your writing simple and you can’t go too far wrong. And if you find yourself using the same words over and over, visit thesaurus.com for some new expressions.
Be accurate. You don’t need to sugarcoat your review. If a toy is too strong for you, or too big, or doesn’t fit your body, say that. At the same time, you can also offer tips for people it might work for. Note- if your experience with the toy was frustrating, wait to write your post until you’ve cooled down. Writing when you’re upset is a great way to write badly.
Learn about the toy. We have lots of info on our site about all of our products. Read about how they work, how to use them, how to clean them. As a toy reviewer, people expect you to know enough about the products to speak knowledgably. If you have questions, contact us. We’re always happy to help.
Give us some good quotes. We love to post review links on our Facebook page. It generates some excitement and gets you more traffic. And the easiest way to be one of the writers we highlight is to give us a juicy 2-3 sentence snippet we can quote. The preamble and the summary are good places for them.
Use photos and links. Try to take a photo with a contrasting background so your readers can actually see the product. Or you can right-click on the photo on our website, save it, and upload it. Make the image a link to the product page, not just to the photo. The more opportunities you give reviewers to link to our site, the more conversions you’ll get.
You can also link to
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Learn a little about SEO. There’s a lot to be said about search engine optimization. If you’re just starting out, here are two tips:
Label your photos. A .jpg file with the name “Good-Vibrations-Tiny-Tickler-
Vibrator.jpg” with an alt tag “Buy a Tiny Ticker Vibrator at Good Vibrations” will get more notice from search engines than simply “IMG_3872.jpg”.
Add titles to your links. Similarly, when you insert a link, give it a title. “[Product Name] from Good Vibrations”, for example.
That’s good for us because it helps the search engines recognize that you’re linking to us. But it’s also helpful for you! If you hover your mouse over a picture or a link, you’ll see that some of them will show the title. Adding descriptive titles also allow browsers to make your review more accessible to readers who are vision impaired. More of your readers will click on the links when you do that, which means more conversions for you.
If this seems like a lot, don’t get too stressed about it. Just take it one step at a time and sooner than you think, you’ll have an amazing sex toy review site!

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My First Time

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At seventeen, I felt ancient. To still be a virgin at my age seemed unusual and undesirable — I was an awkward curiosity, an artifact from the Victorian era. While all my friends were sharing their tales of debauchery between classes, I spent my breaks obsessing about how unattractive I was.
Every Saturday I made excuses to head over to the coffee guy.
My male classmates struck me as unsophisticated and introverted. Basically, they were too much like me. I wasn't interested in losing my virginity mutually with someone, fumbling awkwardly and pushing things into place with carefully patchworked information from wise friends and individual guesswork. I wanted to be shown what to do — to learn from someone older and well-practiced who could bring me up to speed, so I could keep up with my sexually active girlfriends in conversation.
I found the perfect non-virgin at work. My weekend job in the swimwear section of a drab but perpetually crowded department store was positioned in sight of the store café. From my vantage point, I watched the weekend barista, four years my senior, at work. Every Saturday I made excuses to head over to the coffee guy. The most convincing of these was to gather shopping baskets by the store entrance, which took me up to the tiled perimeter of the café.
I collected these baskets like they were precious little eggs, snatching them from customers as soon as they emptied their contents at the till. Each trip afforded me a furtive glance his way, and I often found he was looking back, party to my embarrassingly obvious strategy but flattered all the same. He wasn't so good-looking, but from what I saw he had an intensity and independence that I admired. The first time we spoke, during a late-night sale event, I knew he'd be the first boy to fuck me.
Despite that initial certainty, I almost ruined my chances. We hung out a few times before I finally stayed the night. Having packed two bottles of cheap red wine into my backpack, I sat on his small single bed and drank my way through the first one in twenty minutes. It didn't stay down too long; I barely noticed his fingers inside me as I sprayed vomit over all of his most prized possessions. Hot red sick flowed onto his record collection, his movie collection — I hit all the collections. He and two of his helpful flatmates carried me into the bathtub and hosed me down. Horrifically, throughout this group cleaning, I kept trying to seduce him, my drunken kisses falling on bathroom tiles and soap, rarely onto his mouth.
I woke up early in the morning, warm and dry, wearing a borrowed blue nightgown, humiliated, and decided to skip the alcohol on my next attempt. When it did happen a week or so later, there was no alcohol involved. "Southern Man" played at medium volume on the record player, the lights were low, and his blankets were orange and brown. After what felt like an eternity of thrusting, during which he never entered me all the way, he came, then promptly left me alone to go make some tea for himself.
I texted all of my friends regarding my broken hymen. Then I began to reflect on my brand new membership to this most essential of clubs. I wasn't underwhelmed by the experience — I hadn't expected much. The separation between me and my partner was the only unexpected aspect. As he made noises and expressions I'd never witnessed on any man's face, seemingly engaged in some ritual that only involved my vagina, I'd realized that although the specific memory might fade, this routine would probably be with me all my life.
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Sex Week at Yale Is Officially On

In December, Yale students proposed a program for Sex Week 2012 that addressed some of the concerns about Sex Weeks past — including the criticism that it was too porn-focused. Now, the Sex Week organizers have let us know that the university has accepted their proposal — Sex Week 2012 is officially scheduled for Feb. 4-14. The keynote speaker will be Ann Olivarius, a Yale Law and School of Management grad, Rhodes Scholar, and now partner in a corporate law firm. Olivarius was also a plaintiff in Alexander v. Yale, the case that led to the establishment of a sexual harassment grievance system at Yale. That case was an inspiration for Yale students' current Title IX complaint against the university (they say the school failed to fix its sexist campus environment), so the choice of Olivarius is a pretty significant one. She'll be talking about "sexual education and discourse as a means to prevent sexual violence."

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maandag 23 januari 2012

Being A Lesbian Doesn't Mean I Can't Enjoy Sex With Men

For 10 years, I struggled with my sexual orientation and what to call it. I searched for labels that seemed to fit me best — bisexual, lesbian, fluid, queer? I had been with my first girlfriend for over two years, but still didn’t identify as gay because I continued to be attracted to men.
When I started dating men again at the age of 26, I wasn’t really falling for any them. One night, while I was having sex with a new guy for the first time, I burst out into tears because I realized I was a lesbian.
It wasn’t the intercourse itself that made me come to this realization, it was that being with a man emotionally and physically didn’t feel right. I wasn’t emotionally capable of loving a man. I had feelings of lust, even romantic attraction to the guys I dated, but I never felt that magic spark that bring couples together.
For a few weeks, I abstained from sex altogether as I tried to understand what being a lesbian meant to me. When I figured it out, I felt that I was attracted to women both sexually and emotionally, that I loved women, but didn’t feel I could ever love a man. I wasn’t ruling out being with a man in the future, but at that time, I felt certain I couldn’t be romantically involved with one. In a way, I felt liberated, because 10 years of confusion seemed to come to an end.
“I’ve figured it out! I am a lesbian!” I exclaimed to my other Sapphic friends.
Within weeks though, I was engaging in very unexpected behavior. I resumed sleeping with men with a vengeance, and yet, still identified as a lesbian.
It started with an ex-boyfriend, Eli*. He got back in touch with me a few months after we broke up. After some email exchanges, we decided to hang out. I met him at his apartment and we caught up over wine. As the saying goes “one thing led to another,” and like a scene out of a movie, I was laughing, fell on top of him, looked into his eyes, and we started to make out. Minutes later, we were having sex.
For nearly a year the pattern continued. Whether I had one-night stands or was screwing guys casually, I still identified as a lesbian, and most of these men knew it. I never experienced any cognitive dissonance, confusion, or felt I wasn’t gay. I had learned the art of compartmentalizing and detaching emotions from sex. Sex was sex, not a declaration of sexuality. I liked having sex with men because it felt good and fulfilled all of my urges and cravings.
I found it easy to get laid. Maybe men picked up on the fact that I wouldn’t get emotionally invested or clingy. Maybe I finally figured out how to flaunt my sex appeal or flirt well — two things I never felt I figured out how to do while I was questioning my sexual orientation. Whatever made me attractive to men, it worked, and I relished in my very own sexual revolution.
I’m not saying this is something all lesbians do, quite the opposite. Most of my friends who identify as lesbians have either never had sex with men or stopped dating and sleeping with men as they came to terms with their sexuality. Some of my friends don’t even find men sexually attractive. I’ve only met two gay women who’ve slept with men while they were out-of-the-closet lesbians. One was a girl I dated years ago, Monica*. She told me she still slept with men on a regular basis. Being naïve and still very label-oriented, I told her she was bisexual, not gay.
“No,” she replied. “I’m a lesbian. I still have sex with men because it’s just sex. If I’m horny, and I can’t do it with a girl, I do it with a guy.”
About a year into my sexual spree with men, I stopped. Not because I didn’t want to, in fact, I did want to. But, I met my fiancée, a woman, and fell in love.
I’m lucky in that I can share my feelings about men with my fiancée, and she is neither jealous nor threatened. We even had a trial while she was out of the country of being allowed to kiss boys. I kissed one guy, in a bar. He was definitely sexy, and a great kisser. I got aroused and I knew I would have slept with him had I been single. I still have sex dreams and fantasies about men, but as long as my fiancée and I remain monogamous, my love and sex will remain strictly with my lady.
* Name has been changed.
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Serena loves her dates to explore every single millimeter of her wonderfully slim toned body that longs to be kissed all over. This beautiful model also know's how to go that extra mile an easy going girl who excels in erotic & body to body massage. She loves to take her time to create an unforgettable session of sensual relaxation.

Her only weak point is her love of beautiful clothes  Roberto Cavalli and Hugo Boss being two of her favourites– she is more than willing to sacrifices a few hours of her day in order to find the perfect outfit for your date. With high heels that emphasise her long, slender legs. As a highlight she wears seductive lingerie that emphasises her beautiful firm breasts and she loves her favourite perfume by Agent Provocateur.

Be it French, Italian or Asian cuisine, Serena likes to be taken to culinary heaven. A candle light dinner in a romantic ambience with a glass of champagne and entertaining, relaxed, informal and interesting conversation, with Serena you are guaranteed a evening full of sensual, intoxicating moments.

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woensdag 18 januari 2012

Brussel escort service | Roxanne

When you look at Roxanne’s pictures you can not help but notice she has an amazing figure and gorgeous sexy curves. She radiates a captivating aura from the top of her beautiful head to the tip of her cute manicured toes this stunning model fascinates everyone immediately. Roxanne’s small but perfectly formed slim physique and intense sea blue eyes captivate you from the first moment, then you see her sweet, cheerful smile which frames her pure snow white teeth, her sensual lips inviting you to kiss them passionately, an irresistible mixture that will enchant you totally  .
Roxanne’s open hearted carefree nature will show you how much she really enjoys her little adventures. The reason she opted to be an escort model was to enjoy the pleasure of love and sex free from any ties and uncomplicated. Savour every single moment you have with our dream escort girl Roxanne, let yourself go and enjoy an escort services that's more sparkling than the most expensive champagne, enjoy thrilling foreplay, maybe a sensual body to body massage or one of Roxanne’s sexy striptease. Wonderful intimate moments full of passion and sensuality will follow, your adventure of love a sweet secret that the both of you have shared together and you will remember them for ever with the biggest smile on your face and the hottest glow in your heart.
Meet this exceptional escort lady Roxanne she knows how to create an erotic and tingling atmosphere that will make you long for more.
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Brussel escort service | Roxanne

When you look at Roxanne’s pictures you can not help but notice she has an amazing figure and gorgeous sexy curves. She radiates a captivating aura from the top of her beautiful head to the tip of her cute manicured toes this stunning model fascinates everyone immediately. Roxanne’s small but perfectly formed slim physique and intense sea blue eyes captivate you from the first moment, then you see her sweet, cheerful smile which frames her pure snow white teeth, her sensual lips inviting you to kiss them passionately, an irresistible mixture that will enchant you totally  .
Roxanne’s open hearted carefree nature will show you how much she really enjoys her little adventures. The reason she opted to be an escort model was to enjoy the pleasure of love and sex free from any ties and uncomplicated. Savour every single moment you have with our dream escort girl Roxanne, let yourself go and enjoy an escort services that's more sparkling than the most expensive champagne, enjoy thrilling foreplay, maybe a sensual body to body massage or one of Roxanne’s sexy striptease. Wonderful intimate moments full of passion and sensuality will follow, your adventure of love a sweet secret that the both of you have shared together and you will remember them for ever with the biggest smile on your face and the hottest glow in your heart.
Meet this exceptional escort lady Roxanne she knows how to create an erotic and tingling atmosphere that will make you long for more.
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vrijdag 13 januari 2012

Jane's Net Sex Guide

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World Sexual Records

 The World Sexual Records is a compilation of sexual superlatives from all around the world.
Discover the biggest,   longest, sexiest, tallest, smallest, shortest, highest, lowest, fastest, slowest, rarest, oldest, youngest, happiest, first, last, maximum, minimum, largest, oddest... and most unusual sex record known.
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